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Wholeness Meets on Wednesday

Addiction & Grace by Gerald May

I neglected to put in our announcements that Wholeness Group does meet Wednesday evening of this week.

We are on chapter four of the book, Addiction & Grace. This chapter in particular is far more clinical, exploring the processes and understanding behind addiction. What happens to our brain? What are the chemical reactions that happen when we get hooked on a particular substance, action, or relationship? It’s going to be a tougher read but also the potential for some insightful conversation.

Some smart people over the years have attempted to treat humans like we are just purely scientific things – just living machines with bodies that just need the right pill or balancing agent to get us healthy. Unfortunately, that hasn’t worked out. Human beings are more than just flesh and bones. Our disposition, our sense of happiness, and our desire for respectful treatment impact our health in significant ways. This is why some people undergoing cancer treatment stop their treatment after a while. What’s the point of living if you feel like crap? Likewise, when dealing with addiction, Gerald May, the author of our book, makes the point over and over again that the only healing is through spirituality, a whole body healing.

I hope you can make it and bring your own ideas and experience. We meet at 6:30 PM on Wednesday in the Disciples Room. Call the church if you have questions (214-824-8185).

A Dying Church

The Easter Cross at the Table

I appreciate my friend Karakay Kovaly for pointing me to this excellent read by Mark Yaconelli about the state of church in the US and how a lot of faith communities are struggling to keep up with our fasted pace culture. One of the key paragraphs for me is this one:

Because, hidden beneath its anxiety to keep up with the culture, hidden beneath its grief and disorientation, there is a deeper problem: This church doesn’t know how beautiful it is. The people of this church have somehow been tricked into believing the lie that declining memberships, outdated hymns, prayers, and liturgies that use antiquated language equal some sort of spiritual failing. If this church would only embrace its sense of failure, it might be freed up to find that it holds great treasures.

I’m the first one to admit that the way the Table worships has its strengths and weaknesses. We don’t have the budget or focus to make a slick presentation. We get a little disorganized, have mics that go bad, or start a song in the wrong tempo from time to time. Often, it is the simplest and surprising of things that connect with people, not the elaborate theological constructs and experiments that we labor hours on. We are just people after all, who are doing our best to encounter and point to this Being beyond us who has given us a sense of hope and guidance in this life. More often than not, we over complicate everything.

Dying is scary, but one of those deep rivets that runs through our faith is that death is not final… just another beginning. Out of death, new life mysteriously emerges. That’s one of the stories of Easter. Even if you believe that Jesus probably didn’t come back to life, we still contend that this movement of people experienced something so unforgettable and life changing through this person that it has continued to this day. In the end, it’s just people, struggling, grasping, celebrating, hoping, and yearning for that new life to take deep root in their life and in the world all around.

For anyone who checks us out or joins the pub for an evening, I hope they see that first. When I look at our gathered crowd on a Sunday morn or around the table on a Tuesday night, it is what I see – a beautiful people, a beautiful church. I am thankful for the opportunity to serve such a group of folks and join in the process of dying to the brokenness of my life so that something whole and new emerges.

Reports from the Homeless Census

Last Thursday, a group of six from the Table headed out out to participate in the Homeless Census, a now annual event designed to give both government and community organizations the information they need to serve the homeless population in the DFW area. Four of us went to Dallas Life to interview some of the residents there, while the others went with a police officer to various camps around the neighborhood. The interviews were conversational but basically found out how long a person has been homeless, what benefits are they receiving, and what kinds of services they might still need. It was moving and fascinating to hear their stories. There were 18 year olds, single moms with kids, people with college degrees, folks with histories of abuse, ex-offenders, and more. It was near impossible to categorize them. They were just people, like you and I.

As a community, we will be looking for more possibilities in the future to connect with, learn from, and serve our neighbors like them. I hope you might join us.

Here are some more quotes from a few of our people that went and participated:

After having been to Honduras and now seeing the conditions of our homeless in Dallas, it was like being back in a third world country last night – Greg

It was amazing to find that some homeless choose this lifestyle because they prefer it to any other. I would like to learn how to help those people. – Jules

A homeless man was asked why he did like The Bridge. He said,”too many people, I’m a loner…..I just want to live out here and be left alone.”

From Beth -

I was put at the Dallas Life Foundation, a shelter for families and singles.  I have worked at the Bridge many times, but this was one of my first experiences one-on-one with people experiencing homelessness.  The FIRST thing I realized is that I didn’t like the word “homeless”.  It sounds so final, like they are homeless forever.  I prefer to use “people experiencing homelessness”.  This to me means hopefully a transition, a place to stay until they can get the help they need to get on their feet.  I have heard and believe that almost half of people experiencing homelessness are mentally ill.  This makes it even harder for them to receive services – many don’t like being closed up and are basically invisible to the general public.

I talked to families with children.  I wondered, how do you explain this to your kids?  They just want their kids and to not worry about things like where they live or whether they have a lunch to take to school or dinner in the evening.  I talked to people with Master’s degrees, one with two master’s degrees.  They had run on hard times, lost their job, then their car, and as a result with no savings, ended up experiencing homelessness.  I talked one lady who receives $16.00 in food stamps a MONTH.  How ludicrous.  But the main service I heard people say they need and was nowhere on the form for the census is bus passes.  Most of these people want jobs and it is hard from downtown to get anywhere except on the bus, and with no money, no bus pass.

 I tried to carry on my survey with a conversation.  I shook their hand when they sat down.  I tried to engage with them.  Sometimes it was challenging, but so rewarding and an honor to meet these people and they taught me so much.

You can find out more about the Homeless Census at the Metro Dallas Homeless Alliance website.

Visit the Table this Easter!

Check out the Table this Easter Sunday!

Are you looking for a faith community to check out this Sunday?

You are invited to visit the Table and join us as we celebrate the ancient mystery of the Christian faith – Christ has died, Christ is risen, Christ will come again!

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