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Hey, listening is important.

Listening

Unfair Park has a nice blog post up, recapping how the whole Winfrey Point saga started. I find it an interesting read, though of course, it’s heavily opinionated. The key point is that City Hall has its decision making process out of order. They hire consultants, come up with some plans, and then present it to the community. Why not go to the community first?

The battle over building a parking lot for the Dallas Arboretum at Winfrey Point is absolutely parallel and of a fabric with recent battles over community gardens and neighborhood farmers markets. All anybody at City Hall ever had to do was just walk out of City Hall one time, one day, just go outdoors, and they would have seen an overwhelming cultural trend in favor of safe food, community gardens and farmers markets, not to mention a reverence for open park land not sullied by concrete.

I found it fascinating because I think lots of faith communities do it like this too. We look around and find out what is popular at other churches and think – hey, we should do that too. Then, we train people, buy stuff, and setup some marketing… and never at any point actually go out in the community and see if people need it. Then we wonder why lots of folks don’t ever make it to church.

I loved a recent Think conversation that I caught a few days back. Author, Tom Kelley, talked about the process of innovation. He pointed out how the first step in good innovation, creating a product or service that would improve people’s lives, is anthropology, getting out and observing people and their processes. When you discover a problem or a need, then you begin to come up with solutions and see what you can do to make a difference in someone’s life.

I dig it.

In fact, next week, I am going to try to setup a video conversation with one of our members, John Ogren, on his missional church research project about starting new faith communities with input at the very beginning from neighbors. Stay tuned for that.

The key for the church (and City Hall… and anybody) – listen first.


Winfrey Point

White Rock Lake

Among our conversation about standardized testing, debate teachers, spam (the Hawaiian steak), healthy eating, and revelation, we chatted about Winfrey Point last night.

Unofficially, a good chunk of us were in support of #SaveWinfreyPoint.

The good news is – plans have been scrapped to turn some of the fields into boring parking lots. Unfair Park covers the news here.

On a personal note, White Rock Lake is one of the reasons that my wife and I treasure our part of Dallas. We love the Dallas Arboretum too. We are members. I’m grateful that there seems to be a possibility to work all of this out where everyone wins. I’ll repeat what Rev. Dr. Ron Somers-Clark taught us in our congregational workshop about family systems theory – “the only way to get a system unstuck is to have an adventure.” I love the terminology, because it reminds me of my childhood fantasy to live out the Goonies movie. But seriously, when it seems like all options have disappeared and nothing can change, that’s the moment to really go outside of the box and let your creativity fly.

In the case of this issue around White Rock Lake, I have hope that the solution may end up being awesome to everybody.


Nehemiah’s Friends 6th Annual Golf Tournament

Do you play golf? Can you not play golf? Do you like to raise money to support efforts to end homelessness and help keep families and individuals in their homes? Do you like to zig zag around a golf course on a golf cart on a beautiful day? Regardless of your answers to the above questions, you should consider joining us for the 6th Annual Nehemiah’s Friends Golf Tournament.

I’m not much of a golfer. In fact, I’m not a golfer. But I play, because our young adult group has got it right. Why not enjoy a game of golf and make a difference in the world? The Housing Crisis Center is hosted in the five story community center building on our church campus and does great work by helping people who are about to lose their home due to financial or employment crisis. We are proud to be able to partner with them and raise some funds so that families and individuals can be helped.

As our good friend, Matthew Orlovsky said on Facebook from an experience working in our neighborhood with the homeless, “I was humbled but also reminded at how money and status can really devalue a person and that myself or someone with a million dollars is just like the human being that is given the title of homeless.

If you are interested, email Daniel Wells for the forms and other information.


Reports from the Homeless Census

Last Thursday, a group of six from the Table headed out out to participate in the Homeless Census, a now annual event designed to give both government and community organizations the information they need to serve the homeless population in the DFW area. Four of us went to Dallas Life to interview some of the residents there, while the others went with a police officer to various camps around the neighborhood. The interviews were conversational but basically found out how long a person has been homeless, what benefits are they receiving, and what kinds of services they might still need. It was moving and fascinating to hear their stories. There were 18 year olds, single moms with kids, people with college degrees, folks with histories of abuse, ex-offenders, and more. It was near impossible to categorize them. They were just people, like you and I.

As a community, we will be looking for more possibilities in the future to connect with, learn from, and serve our neighbors like them. I hope you might join us.

Here are some more quotes from a few of our people that went and participated:

After having been to Honduras and now seeing the conditions of our homeless in Dallas, it was like being back in a third world country last night – Greg

It was amazing to find that some homeless choose this lifestyle because they prefer it to any other. I would like to learn how to help those people. – Jules

A homeless man was asked why he did like The Bridge. He said,”too many people, I’m a loner…..I just want to live out here and be left alone.”

From Beth -

I was put at the Dallas Life Foundation, a shelter for families and singles.  I have worked at the Bridge many times, but this was one of my first experiences one-on-one with people experiencing homelessness.  The FIRST thing I realized is that I didn’t like the word “homeless”.  It sounds so final, like they are homeless forever.  I prefer to use “people experiencing homelessness”.  This to me means hopefully a transition, a place to stay until they can get the help they need to get on their feet.  I have heard and believe that almost half of people experiencing homelessness are mentally ill.  This makes it even harder for them to receive services – many don’t like being closed up and are basically invisible to the general public.

I talked to families with children.  I wondered, how do you explain this to your kids?  They just want their kids and to not worry about things like where they live or whether they have a lunch to take to school or dinner in the evening.  I talked to people with Master’s degrees, one with two master’s degrees.  They had run on hard times, lost their job, then their car, and as a result with no savings, ended up experiencing homelessness.  I talked one lady who receives $16.00 in food stamps a MONTH.  How ludicrous.  But the main service I heard people say they need and was nowhere on the form for the census is bus passes.  Most of these people want jobs and it is hard from downtown to get anywhere except on the bus, and with no money, no bus pass.

 I tried to carry on my survey with a conversation.  I shook their hand when they sat down.  I tried to engage with them.  Sometimes it was challenging, but so rewarding and an honor to meet these people and they taught me so much.

You can find out more about the Homeless Census at the Metro Dallas Homeless Alliance website.


Have you found your mission?

Jules & Greg are two of our key Table community regulars, whose leadership and care and welcome of others has made a difference. This past summer, they went with a group from the Church of the Incarnation to Honduras as part of a training/preparation program to lead such trips in the future. Jules shared her experiences back in August, but she and Greg will brief our whole church on Sunday at noon. I hope you can plan on being there.

Mission has been an unofficial theme for the Table in this New Year, as we have attempted to move beyond our four walls and into our community. Tonight, a group of us will go and participate with the homeless census and count, starting at City Hall. During Christmas, the Table helped Reconciliation Ministry organize and distribute gifts to families in need. Most of our messages in this New Year have been focused on our call to serve others.

But it’s important to realize that mission is not just something that you go and do in a foreign country, one time a month for a special event, or whatever. It’s what you do each day.

Theologian David Bosch, in his book Transforming Mission, says it this way:

… consequently, the church is called to live the resurrection life in the here and now and to be a sign of contradiction against the forces of death and destruction.

Your job setting is a place to do mission. Your apartment complex. Your home. Your neighborhood. Your gym. Your local pub. Your supermarket. Wherever your day takes you, you will have opportunity to participate in Jesus’ ministry of incarnation in someone else – being God’s love for a stranger, friend, or enemy. Sometimes, that’s handing a thirsty person a drink of water or buying a burger for a hungry neighbor. Sometimes, it’s your presence in a time of need. It might even be words of affirmation to someone who feels beat down by life. It definitely includes using your voice to change systems that are broken in our own community.

Have you discovered your place of mission? Are you opening up to sharing God’s love with those you meet? May this New Year be a time to discover the answers to those questions and hear God’s call afresh.


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