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Stand By Me

Church as an institution has lost lots of its luster in our modern day and for good reason. We have been rocked by scandal, whether it is sexual predators that our institutions have attempted to cover up or ignore, messages that end up sounding hypocritical and judgmental, or missions that focus on divisiveness over compassion. The church has seemed severely out of touch, at best, or complicit, at worst, in some of the turmoil, chaos, and brokenness in our world.

Granted, the church is made up of normal people who can make poor choices, respond out of fear, or seek to protect what they preserve as sacred. In that sense, we are no different than many corporate and political leaders who also fall into the same traps. Many of our failures are played out on a public stage, sometimes by our own request.

I understand that the church is in a period of deep transformation. A lot of folks have felt excluded and hurt over the years. Some churches are beginning to address those abuses of power and theology. Some are beginning to reach out and find a way forward filled with forgiveness, healing, and hope. The question for folks of my generation and below remains – will church still have a place in our future?

I think so.

We did the version of “Stand By Me” at the Table this past Sunday. It’s a fun song, but it also speaks to one of the great blessings of church that still remains and continues to have deep potential to connect with people -

Presence.

Being with people in their need, in their struggle, and in their fear.

I can personally speak to the many times when my church has stood with me, surrounded me in love, or encouraged me in times of struggle. My friends were a great help too, but when a church “stands by you”, it’s a bit different. They don’t love me because they are my friend. They love me because I am a child of God. I experienced this again recently with the passing of my grandmother, and my church family poured out care for me. I felt loved. I felt connected. I felt reassured. I felt God’s presence around.

Our world needs more of that divine presence, standing with others in the midst of pain, isolation, and fear. Standing with folks who face injustice. Standing with people who have seemingly lost everything. Standing with those are heartbroken. Standing with those without family or friend.

That’s a vision of church that will thrive for years to come. That’s part of my vision of our community called the Table here in East Dallas.

Won’t you stand by me?


Stand by me

I’m thankful to be surrounded my a loving wife, beautiful kids, a great family, and many friends who stand by me during tough moments of my life. I know there are many in this world who do not have that support… or don’t get it from the people who are supposed to give it. Some folks do find that support in a church, but churches can abuse people too. I long for a world where everybody has that oasis, a place to be loved and connected regardless of who they are and where they were born.

The playing for change songs are great and provide this image of a common language by which all humans can communicate. We have plenty of old songs, new songs, and songs yet to be written that can help us vision and live into a world where our lamentations and dreams mingle together. A world where it don’t matter the money you have, the education you have, the mistakes you’ve made, or even the religion you follow – someone is there to stand with you.

Do you dream of that kind of world too? May we pray for it and live for it… together.


If You Were President

If you were president…

I remember catching this song on the Dave Chappelle show a few years back, and I wondered what my own verses would be. It’s an election season yet again, and people are thinking and praying and looking to the people who lead. I agree it’s not always a hopeful process, but I don’t think the solution is ever to check out. Sure, a single president can only do so much, but a group of people who are passionate and involved can do even more. We are always challenged to speak our voices, our hopes, and our dreams. How else could they come into reality if they are not first spoken?

What would you do if you were president? Would you do something different to lift up the poor or help shape our society to do right by our neighbors? How would you work to bring about peace in our world? What would you do to take care of our kids? Add your verse.


Revolutionary Jesus

Here is something I’ve sort of learned about life – the stereotypes that we think and believe in often tell more about us than the people or things we might be describing.

And it can be absolutely infuriating when that person that we stereotype as a Democrat, Republican, snob, hippy, liberal, conservative, or whatever turns out to be just another human being, especially someone that is more like us than we ever dreamed.

Try as we might, Jesus doesn’t fit stereotypes. I have read and heard some attempts by Christian authors to turn Jesus’ ministry and leadership style into the spitting image of a modern, fiscally conservative CEO. I’ve been in groups of young people who feel that Jesus’ message was calling them to forsake the world and go off and live with the poor. People use the words of Jesus to bless their hardline immigration stances or their hardline anti-war stances. In other words, we all tend to see the Jesus we want to see.

It’s much harder to take the gospels and the words of Jesus for what they are – really, really tough. This Sunday, we’ll explore his identity as a leader, one who called people to follow him and sent them out to spread the word that the kingdom of God was near. He had the uncanny ability to get someone to change their life and career from a brief encounter. He also had the guts to send those same disciples, often clueless, out into neighboring villages without an extra change of clothes or hard itinerary. “Stay with those who open their doors to you,” he said. “Be ready, because people might toss you in jail and beat you for what you will proclaim.”

Ouch – not even a 401k for their efforts or a congratulatory parade on the way back?

In my opinion, our challenge is to do our best to take off our own blinders, whether we live in comfortable situations or feel the urge to change the world, and try to see Jesus in all of his complexities. Let his words hang in the air, weigh on us, and challenge us. Chances are we may discover a Jesus who is revolutionary to a lot of our preconceived ideas and biases – a Jesus who each and everyday asks us to follow him out of the comfort and into the challenge of proclaiming a new world breaking in, to move from our preconceived stereotypes and encounter the beautiful world around us with the spirit of a child.

This is why Jesus was so revolutionary – he could take a bunch of ordinary men and women who followed him and envision a new world, a new way of life, emerging from that particular place in human history. May Christ use us like that… today.


What’s your calling?

We begin our New Year often in the same way – making resolutions, looking to the future, and welcoming a second chance to do the things we’ve always wanted to do.

What's Your Calling?Saturday’s horrific tragedy in Arizona reminds me, that each day, week, month, and year, the question of what we make of our lives goes beyond just ourselves. Can our choices, values, and passions make this world a safer place? Are we given a chance each day to influence some action that might bring darkness or light into our culture?

Sometimes, I wish I could answer that no. Despite my status as a “clergy”, there are lots of things in life that overwhelm me or leave me without answers. There are times when I wish I could be off-duty. There are many times I want to just blend into the crowd and imagine that my actions have little effect on the people around me.

Since my wife and I have welcomed two children into the world, I’ve begun to understand that someone is always watching. My words, my actions, and my attitude are being observed and even copied. I set an example – I open and shut doors with how I approach life each and every day. This has challenged me to be more reflective and sensitive to who I am and how I want others, especially my kids, to see me.

If there is one thing, then, that I want my children to learn from me, I hope they discover that life is a blessing and they each have a calling, given from God, to be that light for someone else.

I pray that they find their calling – the thing that they alone have the gifts, resources, and talents to do to make this world a better place.

So that one day, senseless violence will be no more, our communities will be places of safety and care for the least among us, even those with deep psychological struggles, and all people will have mentors and friends who love and welcome them.

This is the image of the Table – a spiritual oasis – a community of broken people that yearn for a better world – a gathering of followers of Jesus, one who lived and taught and died that the world might taste abundant life.

In this New Year, answer that question with me – what’s your calling? May we respond to the call and usher in that better world, together.


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